31/3/2010 (wed)
just now in class, Dr KG mentioned the "trust" element in nurse-patient communication. he asked us, how can you let patient build the trust on you? we gave all sorts of answers... but non of of us got the right one.
the answer is a very simple one - showing patient that you are interested. the primary and also an important element in communication. if you didn't show any interest, how can you expect people to develop the trust in you?
when he told us the answer, i was like "oh yea!!!" *knock on my head* i think i left out this most of the time. the essential element to become a good listener. not only towards patients, and also people around me especially friends... i think i always lost my patient while people is talking to me on something i am not interested in, and i definitely do show it in my non-verbal communication. gotta learn how to become a good listener...
lesson of the day: remember to show that i am interested while communicating.
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Tuesday, March 30, 2010
下雨了
30/3/2010 (星期二)
刚才放学走出学校时,天空在下着雨。
讨厌下雨的我,望着乌云密布的天空,
在想:为什么偏偏在我放学要回家的时候下雨呢?
可是感谢主,包包里躺着新买的雨伞,
让我在走去停车场的路途上不会变成“落汤鸡”。
路上下着倾盆大雨,模糊了我的视线,也看不到前方的路。
感谢主,让我平安的到家。
当小白经过一滩滩的积水时,轮胎在水上滑了开去。
感谢主,让我捉稳了驾驶盘。
在下车时被雨水淋了个湿透透,
感谢主,我马上可以舒服的洗个热水澡。
当我最害怕的闪电和打雷都到齐时,
感谢主,袮的同在让我不至于怕到躲在被窝里叫自己快点睡觉。^^
虽然下雨为我带来了许多不便,
然而,还是要感谢主。
因为今晚天气将会是凉凉的,让我能够睡个好觉。=D
刚才放学走出学校时,天空在下着雨。
讨厌下雨的我,望着乌云密布的天空,
在想:为什么偏偏在我放学要回家的时候下雨呢?
可是感谢主,包包里躺着新买的雨伞,
让我在走去停车场的路途上不会变成“落汤鸡”。
路上下着倾盆大雨,模糊了我的视线,也看不到前方的路。
感谢主,让我平安的到家。
当小白经过一滩滩的积水时,轮胎在水上滑了开去。
感谢主,让我捉稳了驾驶盘。
在下车时被雨水淋了个湿透透,
感谢主,我马上可以舒服的洗个热水澡。
当我最害怕的闪电和打雷都到齐时,
感谢主,袮的同在让我不至于怕到躲在被窝里叫自己快点睡觉。^^
虽然下雨为我带来了许多不便,
然而,还是要感谢主。
因为今晚天气将会是凉凉的,让我能够睡个好觉。=D
速度
30/3/2010 (星期二)
今天早上和往常一样,和亲爱的小白一起出门去上课。
当我离开家,下到高速公路时,就被长长的车龙围绕着了。好塞车噢!
平时路上都是缓慢行驶,今天终于让我遇到不会动的车龙了。
塞车的当儿,无聊的我只好东看看,西望望。
原来路边也有好多美丽的景色呢。
路边长着各式各样的树,高高在上的,或是矮矮的灌木。
有些被修成了波浪形,正方形。
还有像螺丝般,可爱的旋转形。
从来没有发觉到每天必经之路有那么多可爱的东西。
也许每天只顾着踩油门,专心在看路。
不怪得妈妈常说,当你将速度放慢的时候,
将会发觉到许多平时都不察觉的事物。
自从开课以后,时间表都排得满满的。除了上课,还有实习。
不知不觉已将生活的步伐加快。也许就这样错过了许多美好的事物和恩典。
在加快步伐的当儿,偶尔放慢速度,或停下开看看,
可能会有意外的收获呢。^^
今天早上和往常一样,和亲爱的小白一起出门去上课。
当我离开家,下到高速公路时,就被长长的车龙围绕着了。好塞车噢!
平时路上都是缓慢行驶,今天终于让我遇到不会动的车龙了。
塞车的当儿,无聊的我只好东看看,西望望。
原来路边也有好多美丽的景色呢。
路边长着各式各样的树,高高在上的,或是矮矮的灌木。
有些被修成了波浪形,正方形。
还有像螺丝般,可爱的旋转形。
从来没有发觉到每天必经之路有那么多可爱的东西。
也许每天只顾着踩油门,专心在看路。
不怪得妈妈常说,当你将速度放慢的时候,
将会发觉到许多平时都不察觉的事物。
自从开课以后,时间表都排得满满的。除了上课,还有实习。
不知不觉已将生活的步伐加快。也许就这样错过了许多美好的事物和恩典。
在加快步伐的当儿,偶尔放慢速度,或停下开看看,
可能会有意外的收获呢。^^
Monday, March 22, 2010
我们的友谊
21/3/2010 (星期日)
我们曾经无所不谈,
我们曾经有共同的话题,东南西北,讲个不停。
我们曾经说好要一起逛街,逛书局,看红鹤。
我们也曾经拥有一样的协议,共同的理念。
还曾经拥有一段珍贵的友谊。
曾经在大家开心时,互相分享。
曾经在大家遇到困难时,互相分担。
曾经在大家经历失败时,互相鼓励。
曾经在大家情绪低落时,互相安慰。
曾经在大家遇到挫折时,互相扶持。
曾经在大家有需要时,互相用祷告托住对方。
曾经在大家有需要时,成了对方的小天使。
可是,那次以后,我们不再详谈,也不再彼此问候,关心。
我们之间,有了隐形的隔膜。
虽然大家有没有说出口,
但是,大家都感受到那道墙的存在,
将我们所培养的默契,间隔住了。
后悔自己相处得太诚实。
后悔让自己太依赖朋友。
后悔让友谊占了重要的地位。
后悔让自己太看重这段友谊。
因为,我发现,我已经渐渐地失去了它。
恼怒自己,连一段友谊,都无法维持。
我们曾经无所不谈,
我们曾经有共同的话题,东南西北,讲个不停。
我们曾经说好要一起逛街,逛书局,看红鹤。
我们也曾经拥有一样的协议,共同的理念。
还曾经拥有一段珍贵的友谊。
曾经在大家开心时,互相分享。
曾经在大家遇到困难时,互相分担。
曾经在大家经历失败时,互相鼓励。
曾经在大家情绪低落时,互相安慰。
曾经在大家遇到挫折时,互相扶持。
曾经在大家有需要时,互相用祷告托住对方。
曾经在大家有需要时,成了对方的小天使。
可是,那次以后,我们不再详谈,也不再彼此问候,关心。
我们之间,有了隐形的隔膜。
虽然大家有没有说出口,
但是,大家都感受到那道墙的存在,
将我们所培养的默契,间隔住了。
后悔自己相处得太诚实。
后悔让自己太依赖朋友。
后悔让友谊占了重要的地位。
后悔让自己太看重这段友谊。
因为,我发现,我已经渐渐地失去了它。
恼怒自己,连一段友谊,都无法维持。
Saturday, March 20, 2010
My group
19/3/2010 (Fri)
never stay in uni until such a late time.
left uni at 9pm+ just now. never been so late before. and today is friday!! =(
our group is working hard on the HA form which need to hand in on tuesday.
haha, last minute work.
but kinda enjoy group work sometimes.
as long as there is no "parasites" in the group.
and thank God for putting me in the group with all the wonderful friends.
you guys are cute and helpful... =D
even though we are tired and hungry, (after classes from 9am to 4.30pm,
and having dinner at 10pm.)
but we still manage to get things done.
the funny arguments between Fwo Yi and Galvin,
and the lame jokes by Wen Chieh can't stop me from laughing.
when we are having brain block or are pissed off by the work,
there will always be someone who starts the lame jokes that make everyone laugh.
thank God for you guys.
no matter what is the feedback and marks given,
we had tried our best.
and you guys rocks!!! =)
never stay in uni until such a late time.
left uni at 9pm+ just now. never been so late before. and today is friday!! =(
our group is working hard on the HA form which need to hand in on tuesday.
haha, last minute work.
but kinda enjoy group work sometimes.
as long as there is no "parasites" in the group.
and thank God for putting me in the group with all the wonderful friends.
you guys are cute and helpful... =D
even though we are tired and hungry, (after classes from 9am to 4.30pm,
and having dinner at 10pm.)
but we still manage to get things done.
the funny arguments between Fwo Yi and Galvin,
and the lame jokes by Wen Chieh can't stop me from laughing.
when we are having brain block or are pissed off by the work,
there will always be someone who starts the lame jokes that make everyone laugh.
thank God for you guys.
no matter what is the feedback and marks given,
we had tried our best.
and you guys rocks!!! =)
Happy day
18/3/2010 (Thu)
yeah! finished pharma paper today and feeling extremely happy.
is like letting a burden down on my shoulder. huh...
not gonna think about the result first.. ^^
people says that happiness spreads...
and i am calling friends in my contact list to "spread" the happiness.
this is what call sharing right? =D
is better to spread happiness rather than diseases... haha..
but people begin to ask am i ok? is there anything wrong with me? =.=
i thought this is the way that we suppose to lead our life,
rejoice in the Lord always!
this shows me how dull i am usually.
when i am happy, people will start asking why am i so abnormal.
gonna learn how to rejoice in the Lord...
You are my source of strength and happiness
my day won't be so wonderful without You!!
yeah! finished pharma paper today and feeling extremely happy.
is like letting a burden down on my shoulder. huh...
not gonna think about the result first.. ^^
people says that happiness spreads...
and i am calling friends in my contact list to "spread" the happiness.
this is what call sharing right? =D
is better to spread happiness rather than diseases... haha..
but people begin to ask am i ok? is there anything wrong with me? =.=
i thought this is the way that we suppose to lead our life,
rejoice in the Lord always!
this shows me how dull i am usually.
when i am happy, people will start asking why am i so abnormal.
gonna learn how to rejoice in the Lord...
You are my source of strength and happiness
my day won't be so wonderful without You!!
"The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you;
he will never leave you nor forsake you.
Do not be afraid; do not be discourage."
he will never leave you nor forsake you.
Do not be afraid; do not be discourage."
~ Deut 31:8
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Test following by test....
Gonna have BMS test afterward and now, i am too exhausted. i find that i can fall asleep no matter what i am doing. 'fishing' while i sit down, 'fishing' on the table when i do revision and 'fishing' in the bath also! terrible...
maybe the schedule is too pack and i am somehow anesthetic to exams already. no sense of nervous and pressure, even though i have not done all the revisions. reproduction, eye and ear left. and i think the rest of the input had gone into the short-term memory compartment. hopefully i still can re-call later.
after BMS, Pharma awaits on thursday and i will spend my weekend with Micro & Para. such an 'interesting' period.
and hopefully i won't fall asleep in the exam hall later... =.=
maybe the schedule is too pack and i am somehow anesthetic to exams already. no sense of nervous and pressure, even though i have not done all the revisions. reproduction, eye and ear left. and i think the rest of the input had gone into the short-term memory compartment. hopefully i still can re-call later.
after BMS, Pharma awaits on thursday and i will spend my weekend with Micro & Para. such an 'interesting' period.
and hopefully i won't fall asleep in the exam hall later... =.=
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